The Parent’s Neurodiversity Toolkit
 
10 Things Every Parent Should Know Before Requesting an EHCP or Neurodevelopmental Assessment
 
 
If you’re a parent trying to navigate the complex world of EHCPs, neurodevelopmental assessments, and school support for neurodiverse children, this toolkit is your essential guide.
 
Written by Kelly Young, ADHD, ASC, and Neurodiversity Coach, educator, and advocate, this toolkit helps parents cut through the confusion, understand their rights, and confidently advocate for their children without burning out.
 
🧠 Inside You’ll Find
Step-by-step guidance on EHCP requests and SEN Support.
Clear explanations of the SEND Code of Practice, reasonable adjustments, and legal entitlements.
Templates for emails, meeting notes, and EHCP request letters.
Practical advice on building an evidence trail, managing behaviour through connection, and supporting emotional regulation.
Self-care strategies for parents navigating the system.
 
💬 Who It’s For
This toolkit is designed for:
Parents and carers of children with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, or other neurodevelopmental needs.
Families waiting for assessment or already in the EHCP process.
Anyone who feels lost, dismissed, or unsure where to start when seeking support from schools or Local Authorities.
 
🌟 What Makes It Different
Unlike generic SEND guides, this toolkit blends professional expertise and lived experience. Kelly has worked within schools, tribunals, and local authorities, and as a neurodiverse parent herself, she knows exactly how overwhelming the process can be.
It’s not just information,  it’s reassurance, strategy, and solidarity in one powerful resource.
 
“Understanding your child’s needs is the first step to helping them thrive, not just survive,  in education.”
 
Kelly